Saturday, December 27, 2014
“I DID NOTHING WRONG!”
Divorce I declare on November 25th of this year.
“If you stay I will comply!” you said.
Will my age be 95 when this I see and hear?
“I did nothing wrong!” I get all this junk from your head.
Reasonable I planned to be.
Setting some words in pencil.
Even when inside I hadn’t a “Yippee.”
Glad these words were not set in stencil.
One day a week exercise with an Fitness Instructor.
Find a church and attend.
Two times a month on Sundays I direct.
Wednesday I penned.
Date night,
Family night, time,
Couples therapy I write.
Family counseling I chime.
Tanner, a prime consideration.
We each have our own page.
While we need to tune to the same station.
Seems to me I parent around your rages.
Judge me plenty in this marriage.
If you are a Christian and fill in plenty of blanks.
Can we find a carriage,
To carry us where God ranks and we give thanks?
Whose is this baby?
Was your reply to my telling you of my pregnancy.
What does that imply to me maybe?
Great way to start the gestation.
Your way or the highway,
Has been how it seems
Our marriage a flyby,
My behavior says to you. Blowing to smithereens.
I am not lily white.
Marriage takes two.
Perfection is a quest that people must hold. Allright I did bite.
After a bit, I bet we both blew.
Attention you want.
Tis not Tanner you are for him to prosper.
Only wanting to flaunt.
Called it Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy and like a cosper.
No to church choir.
Hated my enrolling in swimming, karate and many other sports.
Attention you said I wished to acquire.
Forbid me to run for PTA President, threatening me for some reason you’d report.
The house was always yours in title.
Shuffling aside the promise to buy a new house once married.
I didn’t do this or that which was vital.
How I felt as if I’d been buried.
When will you be home?
You were late.
Where is my tomb?
Was I mistake but your love appeared as if hate.
Plenty on our plate, for sure,
We must do,
In finding a cure,
After saying “I do!”
Already, you have stated the fitness instructor you aren’t ready for.
I, in good faith, agreed to remain for three months and try.
Let us remember it isn’t war.
Hope and faith should keep us from cries and saying bye.
Your barter was to walk the dog,
With me two or three times a week,
For 15 minutes to 30 minutes, A fog
Was not your state of mind or your critique.
One day you proclaim,
If it is going to be like this,
We won’t be part of the marriage game.
I pray we can find bliss.
You think I keep bringing up the past,
Nagging without forgiving.
However, there is a contrast.
Purposely, getting at anger thrown out isn’t how I will be living.
I asked you to write down your wants and desires.
Of all things I haven’t forgotten God first is a must.
We must put out many fires while relighting a major fire.
A wind gust of marriage thrust is needed that we trust.
Remember, telling me I couldn’t take Tanner
By himself on a vacation.
One big banner,
Is that I can do this type of migration.
Our marriage has lots of problems.
I promise to convey,
My love and earnest,
Struggle to succeed.
God states anything is possible
Through Christ.
Thinking we agree on most of the doctrinal,
Principles from the bible, we must pay the price.
Forgetting and forgiving,
Yes, I concur,
Without misgivings.
If you and I finally understand each other without it being a blur.
God, with faith,
We pray and ask,
To hear what you saith.
Vowing to endure any task.
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
Midway USS Aircraft Carrier Musuem Tour
http://youtu.be/h0s0TPo9rgY
For Backgound informatin see
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_Midway_%28CV-41%29
For Backgound informatin see
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/USS_Midway_%28CV-41%29
Monday, December 22, 2014
Kerina No Longer Accepts Exceptions Are Okay For All But Her! (Fiction)
Don't you love the rules should apply to you but not to others?
Kerina of late had decided no more accepting exceptions! Get together's with family are often stressful and cause more muscle pain from tense muscles.
Yelling at Christmas,"SHUT UP!" was wrong. However, apologies were made. The reason for her yelling was to get across a tablet wasn't charging. All that was being discussed had been tried. At the end of the night the tablet still didn't charge. Thus, the person doing the talking wasn't listening. Nevertheless, yelling is socially unacceptable.
One Thanksgiving a bad habit was being discussed. Kerina knows her field of study. Kerina made a remark about nicotine and it being used as an insecticide with other information presented. The point was to help an individual undestand that nicotine still had some risks.
Of course this person didn't want to hear it. He screamed YOUR WRONG! Fathers back up sons. Even though Kerina screamed NO YOU ARE WRONG, the father but brother to Kerina screamed again, YOUR WRONG. Instead of looking up the material as both Kerina and her brother had been taught, Kerina is supposed to let it go. There is something wrong with Kerina. Never has an apology arisen out of this situation.
Kerina, not feeling well missed a play where the tickets had been bought by a sister-in-law. Kerina slept through the play. Kerina's husband talked with her brother and explained the situation. Kerina didn't get up or do much until Sunday night about 10PM and then just checking email and Facebook.
Imagine her suprise when this message is on Facebook from the sister-in-law, Tina, that bought the tickets to the play,
Message from Tina to Kerina on Facebook that night. "Tina, I really don't understand why you had me buy two tickets for Frank's play. And, then didn't bother to call and let us know you weren't coming or call just to let us know when you are going to reimburse to me the cost of the tickets. I did something nice for you and you do this...You may have problems to deal with but doesn't make it right how you treat people....right? I won't make this mistake again. Love, ya but am very disappointed.
Well, Kerina blocked Tina then and there from Facebook. No longer will she deal with people that need their money back or don't stop to consider that Kerina was still sick or just getting over not feeling well. Keinra texted her brother the informatioon intending to pay them back as soon as possible. Here again Tina gets snippy. She can't follow a text that explains Kerina wasn't up to details and assumed Tina and Harold would be stayint with their other brother. Tina can't wait to point out Kerina is wrong.
Tina finally realizes Kerina blocked her on FB. She has Harold ask her today at 7:38am if Kerina did this. Kerina didn't respond.
Later that day Kerina arrives at the mother's house. Kerina tells Harold yes I blocked her that day.
Harold goes, "Well then you can block me from your shit too." Harold gets right in her face.
Kerina complies. Saying okay. She follows through right then.
Now during this her sister, Nancy, gets upset. Kerina needs to let it go. The family needs to start getting along.
Kerina has had it explaining that accepting these exceptions will no longer be a part of her life. It was not okay for her to yell at the one Christmas. Kerina apoligized.
It is okay for the one person to shout "YOUR WRONG," and again be shouted by the father, "YOUR WRONG!" NO effort is made to check on who might be right. Kerina must let it go.
Kerina again must accept exceptions for Tina's rudeness. Kerina must forget that Tina could have waited and tried to understand the reasons behind missing a play. Again, Kerina will no longer accept exceptions that seem to apply only for others.
Life is short. Yes. Life is too short to deal with people that want to yell they are right without considering the possbility they might be wrong. Life is too short to be around people that want to gripe and judge others.
Kerina is much happier now.
Facebook Pages that are not kind to letting me post: Block them from your feed if you want more control.
BLOCKING LIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Facebook pages *********I plan to update and repost as time permits
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PLEASE NOTE THAT SPAMMING IS A PROBLEM ....BUT POSTING FROM TIME TO TIME SHOULD BE OKAY.
IF IT ISN'T WITH THEM THEN WE CAN TAKE OUR POWER TO BLOCK THOSE THAT DO NOT RECIPROCATE!
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You know you have a child with Autism when
#autism #autism humor #autism Christmas #Asperger's #High Functioning Autism #ADD #ADHD #Christmas Celebration #learning disabilities God
I decided to feel in this blank and the results were so amazing I am posting my feel in the blank answer.
For the humor side of autism.....You Know you have a child with autism...when at Christmas you are thinking of renting a child to open presents
Saturday, December 20, 2014
Best teaching models? Mehods? Results?
#education #education models #best teaching methods
http://thejournal.com/articles/2014/12/18/hybrid-classes-outlearn-traditional-classes.aspx
http://thejournal.com/articles/2014/12/18/hybrid-classes-outlearn-traditional-classes.aspx
Goodbye Wayne!
From the A-Team Wednesday's Crew Preparing Grocery Sacks at Skyline Urban Ministries. Tell Carmack "Hello" for me. I am sorry I missed your Funeral Wayne.
A man that gave plenty to the community.
http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=J.-Beal&lc=2327&pid=172764528&mid=6153742
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Yukon, OK 73099 Christmas Lights Part II:
Yukon, OK 73099 Christmas Lights Part II: http://youtu.be/hLxGM66JN6M
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
Merry Christmas -N-Blessings 4 -2015
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS
REMIND US YOU ARE THE REASON FOR THE SEASON!
TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHAY
Bill with the babies: Sandie and Spike(Now in heaven)
TANER WINNING FIRST PLACE IN 100 METER DASH SPECIAL OLYMPICS STILLWATER, OK
MERYY CHRISTMAS
TANNER AT JUNIOR PROM 2014
SUMMER 2014 VISTING BIG RED BARN ARCADIA, OK
CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY
CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY(FAVORITE AUNT TWILA MALLO)
CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY
TANNER ABOUT TO SIT FOR SENIOR PICTURES
Friday, December 12, 2014
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Monday, December 8, 2014
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Wednesday, December 3, 2014
Link about Space Launch; How much contribution has been made to the space Program by Autism?
http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2014-12-02/nasas-orion-test-flight-gets-us-closer-to-mars
Visual and spatial strengths!! Plus, repeated patterns...ability to see patterns..
*********Often been found that engineers run in families.....autism too.
How much do we owe to autism with regard to the Space Program?
******Remember Temple Grandin's Grandfather invented the auto pilot for planes!!
Visual and spatial strengths!! Plus, repeated patterns...ability to see patterns..
*********Often been found that engineers run in families.....autism too.
How much do we owe to autism with regard to the Space Program?
******Remember Temple Grandin's Grandfather invented the auto pilot for planes!!
Tuesday, December 2, 2014
Spike better.
Spike playing and sunbathing with Sandie today. Much better than last night When thought on way to dog heaven.
Monday, December 1, 2014
Special Needs Parenting Resources
https://www.youtube.com/user/TamboRhythms1 AN Occupational Therapist that leads drumcircles....plenty of good resoruces!!!!!!
Also owns Legiguide paper....great for teaching writing to those with that challenge. http://legiguide.synthasite.com